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We hope you will join us this Thursday evening, September 18 from 6pm- 8pm for the September, Charity Wine Walk!
Lafayette Village host’s a Wine Walk on the third Thursday of every month to benefit a local charity, and HopeLine is excited to be involved again this year! Participating merchants throughout the village will be offering free wine tasting at their business from 6 pm to 8 pm. Enjoy a leisurely stroll through the Lafayette shops and restaurants – a great way to see all the Village has to offer and taste some fabulous wines. HopeLine has also partnered with Vinos Finos Kitchen and Wine Bar who will be donating 10% of their food proceeds to HopeLine! We hope you will join us there before, or after the wine walk. The fee to participate is $10, with proceeds going to HopeLine. Of course, you must be at least 21 years old to partake in the tastings, but all ages are welcome to shop and savor the many restaurants. The first 100 participants will receive a commemorative wine glass – so get there early!
We hope you will enjoy dinner before or after the walk at Vinos Finos Kitchen and Wine Bar who is donating 10% of their proceeds to HopeLine.
In honor of National Suicide Awareness Month, and World Suicide Prevention Day on September 10th, HopeLine is hosting and participating in a multitude of events throughout the month, and we want you join us!
Wednesday, September 10: 6:45pm-8pm
NCSU Suicide Candle Light Vigil: Held at Harris Field on NCSU campus, HopeLine will be participating in the annual vigil that raises awareness for suicide and highlights local community and campus agencies that are supporting the community.
Thursday, September 18: 6pm- 8pm
Lafayette Village Charity Wine Walk: $10 to participate and all the proceeds go to HopeLine. We hope you will enjoy dinner after at Vinos Finos Kitchen and Wine Bar who is donating 10% of their proceeds to HopeLine. (Volunteers Needed)
Saturday, September 20: 9:30am- 12pm
WOD for Life: $25 to participate and all the proceeds benefit HopeLine. A Crossfit workout experience to raise awareness for suicide, “Because every 14 minutes in the U.S. someone is lost to suicide”Register Here
Wednesday, September 24: 6:30pm-7:30pm
Recognition of Dr. Becky Leonard: We are naming the call room after our long time supporter Dr. Leonard who has not only assisted with training our crisis counselor volunteer for over 20 years, but served on our Board of Directions and created our volunteer training manual. We will show our appreciation and acknowledge her time dedicated to HopeLine. All are welcome to join us at the training location!
Friday, October 3: 8:30 am
Sunday, November 9: 12pm
We look forward to seeing you at our upcoming events!
With the recent death of Robin Williams and consistent media coverage of suicide within our community I found it an extremely important time to share with you not only information about HopeLine and other local resources in our community for individuals to reach out to regarding suicide, depression and mental illness but also the warning signs and ways to get help for yourself or loved ones.
1 in 10 individuals have at one point in their lives been depressed, and suicide has become the 10th leading cause of death in America. In 2011 there were more lives lost to suicide than to car accidents, and while these statistics are shocking I find it more crucial to share with you the available resources in our community and give you the knowledge and tools to help yourselves and others.
Below you will find a press release with the warning signs for suicide, and resources including HopeLine that can be used during times of crisis. You will also find a reference sheet that shares statistics along with step by step information on helping those who may be considering suicide.
I hope you will share this information with your followers, and and join HopeLine in saving lives within our community.
Warning Signs for Preventing Suicide
HopeLine wants you to know the signs and risk factors of suicide and how to get help before it’s too late.
Suicide is an epidemic in our community and nation that has been on the rise since 2009. HopeLine wants our community to know not only about available resources they can turn to but also the warning signs for preventing suicide. 75% percent of individuals who commit suicide do show warning signs, and 90% have a diagnosable and treatable disorder.
Every 14 minutes someone in the U.S. dies by suicide, and it is estimated that for every individual lost to suicide there are another 100-200 suicide attempts. It is important that individuals know what to look for in their friends, family members, and co-workers so we can get them help before it is too late.
Signs and symptoms of suicide
|- Signs of serious depression:
o Unrelenting low mood
- Anxiety, psychic pain and inner tension
- Problems sleeping
- Unexpected rage or anger
- Increased Alcohol & Drug use
- Recent impulsiveness & taking unnecessary risks
- Threatening suicide or expressing a strong wish to die
- Making a plan:
- Giving away prized possessions
- Sudden or impulsive purchase of a firearm
- Obtaining means to kill oneself
The emotional crises that usually precede suicide are often recognizable and treatable. Although most depressed people are not suicidal, most suicidal people are depressed. Serious depression can be manifested in obvious sadness, but often it is rather expressed as a loss of pleasure or withdrawal from activities that had once been enjoyable.
“It is important to talk about suicide especially when warning signs are recognized. Do not be afraid to directly ask if an individual is having suicidal thoughts. However, it is important to not argue someone out of suicide. Rather let the person know you care, that they are not alone, that suicidal feelings are temporary and that depression can be treated. Avoid the temptation to say, ‘You have too much to live for,’ or ‘Your suicide will hurt your family,’”said Margaux Austin, the Executive Director at HopeLine, Inc.
Do not be afraid to seek professional help by calling HopeLine 919-231-4525 and talking to a trained crisis counselor. HopeLine operates a free and confidential crisis line and teen talk line to the local community. They specialize in providing suicide and crisis intervention, supportive and non-judgmental active listening, gentle and understanding discussion of crisis resolution, and referrals to appropriate community resources. HopeLine will work with you if you personally are considering suicide, or if you are worried about someone hurting themselves.
If a friend or loved one is threatening, talking about, or making plans for suicide, these are signs of an acute crisis, and it is important not to leave them alone. Remove from the vicinity any firearms, drugs or sharp objects that could be used for suicide. Take the person to an emergency room or walk-in clinic at a psychiatric hospital, or reach out to any of the Wake County resources listed below.
Wake Country Resources for emergency suicide attempts:
□ If a caller has a therapist, mental health provider, or a psychiatrist, this professional is technically the first responder- however, if they are not available in a time of need, do not wait to get them help.
□ Crisis and Assessment Services in Wake County can be contacted on the phone or can be visited in person. This center is a central access point for evaluation and entry into various psychiatric hospitals. 107 Sunnybrook Rd, Raleigh– 919-250-1260.
□ Wake County Access Center 24-hours a day – 919-250-3133 or toll-free 866-518-6784. If a caller has no mental health provider and is interested in receiving mental health services in Wake County.
□ CIT Officers – Crisis Intervention Trained. This is an accredited 40-hour training program to help law enforcement (and some EMS / paramedics) deal with individuals with mental health issues. If you call 911, request a CIT officer. If an individual is in immediate danger do not be afraid to call 911.
□ Mobile Crisis Team is a team of trained counselors who will go an individual’s house and provide a face-to-face intervention and help develop a crisis plan for the person or help bring them to a crisis center or hospital if needed. 1-877-626-1772.
□ Holly Hill Hospital operates independently as a private hospital but often coordinates with Wake County Crisis and Assessment Services. They offer inpatient and ‘partial-hospitalization’ services for children, adolescents, adults and elderly adults. They can be contacted 24/7 at 919-250-7000.
□ HopeLine You many always reach out HopeLine if you are unsure of what steps to take or how to get help. We are available to support you and walk you through the steps of getting help for yourself or others. 919-231-4525